In a way, it did. Change her life, that is.
A British mum of two has died after having cosmetic surgery in Turkey she hoped would change her life. Hairdresser Kaydell Brown, 38, from Sheffield, paid £5,400 for a Brazilian butt lift, a tummy tuck and a boob job.
Why? Serious question. Why would someone want to change their body to look like a barbie doll? These procedure always look false and verging on the ridiculous – see also the trout pouts caused by lip fillers. And, no, these women don’t do it for male admiration, because men don’t care about such things. They do it for themselves and other women.
She said Kaydell hoped the surgery would get her life “back on track” after she had put on a lot of weight due to breaking her ankle.
Eat less, exercise more. That’s it.
What constantly baffles me is that people could just try to lose weight / exercise a little more / be more relaxed and a better person rather than try to be something they’re not. Even well done plastic surgery leaves marks, and given the outcomes of even slightly misjudged alteration, is not something to be undertaken unless it is to correct a gross deformity.
Am I the only one who finds women who have all this plastic surgery to be horrendously outputting?
They look like doll-esque caricatures of women, not something that I’d want to spend time with…
Off-putting, not outputting.
Whoops
Years ago we were aware of the stupidity of having your life dictated by the WOPTOM syndrome; What other people think of me.
When I was in my 20s women wanted to have small bottoms, why has it changed?
Maybe they have woken up to the fact that men like big ones.
I think a lot of men didn’t in the 90s so what has changed?
I’m not sure anyone called Kaydell is going to make sensible life decisions.
Why? Serious answer.
People who feel bad about their current situation and want to get their lives “back on track” sometimes look for a “magic bullet” solution that will immediately change everything, instead of the slow and mundane solutions that usually work.
New clothes, new hair, new relationships, move somewhere else, or even radical surgery, can all be attempts to find a quick fix that will allow a person to leave all his or her problems behind and become something new. The worse that person feels, the greater the desire for a life-changing transformation.
Sometimes it actually works, if only by disrupting negative patterns of behaviour or by opening up some new opportunity. Mostly, it does nothing and just leads to further disappointment. Occasionally, the magic bullet has the same effect as a real bullet, and those cases should be seen as the tragic waste of a life rather than a subject for mockery.